Be wise in Life.
Never listen to a person unless their body language and every thing about them emanates what they are saying.
People will look at you and say, "I am happy. I am joyous."
And their body language will say something entirely different.
When people speak, two things have to be together -- their minds and their body language.
If these two things are together, feel comfortable.
If these two things are not together, then distrust what they are saying.